Friday, February 22
I am getting messages of support from old friends, both in and out of football.
The story about Patty’s accident and the potential criminality involved has hit the football news wires and it’s now spreading across Europe.
That has led to an array of text messages, e-mails and even a few bouquets of wired flowers for Patty from people I know in England, Scotland and the States including representatives of all my old clubs. So when she arrives at my apartment, she’ll have quite a nice assortment of things to look at.
Patty’s release from the hospital was delayed for a day, so I spent my evening watching a player who may soon fit into my plans before heading off to Venice.
Milan Grujic is an 18-year old central midfielder who has conclusively shown that he’s better than youth competition. My u-20 squad is leading its league by ten points and has really put some space between itself and its competition thanks in no small measure to a young midfielder who has dominated the entire league. Balló has had nothing but good things to say about Grujic, who has already declared for Serbia internationally.
I wanted to run the rule over him myself, not having seen the u-20 side play for about a month. He was ‘as advertised’, as our youngsters ran roughshod in a 5-0 rout over Pro Sesto.
So after the match I went to speak with the boy, who is already under contract to us, and caught up with him right as he left the dressing room. I was frankly looking forward to giving him the news I had.
“Milan, it’s time for you to take a step up,” I said. “Starting next week, I want you to begin training with the senior squad. You’ve shown me you deserve the chance.”
His eyes got very big for a moment, and he immediately brought himself back under control – something I really liked.
“I won’t let you down,” he promised.
“Milan, don’t go talking like that,” I said. “I want you to relax about this, and don’t think I have any expectations of you. I want to see how you train with the professionals. I know you are on a contract already and that’s great, but it is time for you to advance your game for a bit through working with the senior squad. We’ll try this for a couple of weeks and evaluate how things are going when it’s done. There is no pressure on you from my point of view and I don’t want you to place any on yourself. Just do the best that you can.”
Watching the dream of a young player unfolding in his eyes provides a great feeling. So much of modern football is veiled in cynicism, so it’s nice to see a young player’s reaction when he’s told he’s moving up for the first time in his career.
He’s obviously delighted but he doesn’t want to put a foot wrong with me. I understand that, but it’s my job to calm down the young player so he doesn’t pressure himself into poor performance or lack of confidence. It’s a big step and obviously the most important one he’ll take to this point in his career.
He’s determined to get it right and I give him full marks for that. I wish more of my senior squad players had such a willingness to get their heads down.
I also got an e-mail from Kate. She was to the point.
Dear Rob:
I wanted to write you to express my sorrow at Patty’s incident. Even Peter is shocked to hear of the sad news.
Please know that we both wish her well. She – and you – are in my prayers.
With love,
Kate
I closed my e-mail.
“With love,” I sighed. “Well, that’s nice.”
I am getting messages of support from old friends, both in and out of football.
The story about Patty’s accident and the potential criminality involved has hit the football news wires and it’s now spreading across Europe.
That has led to an array of text messages, e-mails and even a few bouquets of wired flowers for Patty from people I know in England, Scotland and the States including representatives of all my old clubs. So when she arrives at my apartment, she’ll have quite a nice assortment of things to look at.
Patty’s release from the hospital was delayed for a day, so I spent my evening watching a player who may soon fit into my plans before heading off to Venice.
Milan Grujic is an 18-year old central midfielder who has conclusively shown that he’s better than youth competition. My u-20 squad is leading its league by ten points and has really put some space between itself and its competition thanks in no small measure to a young midfielder who has dominated the entire league. Balló has had nothing but good things to say about Grujic, who has already declared for Serbia internationally.
I wanted to run the rule over him myself, not having seen the u-20 side play for about a month. He was ‘as advertised’, as our youngsters ran roughshod in a 5-0 rout over Pro Sesto.
So after the match I went to speak with the boy, who is already under contract to us, and caught up with him right as he left the dressing room. I was frankly looking forward to giving him the news I had.
“Milan, it’s time for you to take a step up,” I said. “Starting next week, I want you to begin training with the senior squad. You’ve shown me you deserve the chance.”
His eyes got very big for a moment, and he immediately brought himself back under control – something I really liked.
“I won’t let you down,” he promised.
“Milan, don’t go talking like that,” I said. “I want you to relax about this, and don’t think I have any expectations of you. I want to see how you train with the professionals. I know you are on a contract already and that’s great, but it is time for you to advance your game for a bit through working with the senior squad. We’ll try this for a couple of weeks and evaluate how things are going when it’s done. There is no pressure on you from my point of view and I don’t want you to place any on yourself. Just do the best that you can.”
Watching the dream of a young player unfolding in his eyes provides a great feeling. So much of modern football is veiled in cynicism, so it’s nice to see a young player’s reaction when he’s told he’s moving up for the first time in his career.
He’s obviously delighted but he doesn’t want to put a foot wrong with me. I understand that, but it’s my job to calm down the young player so he doesn’t pressure himself into poor performance or lack of confidence. It’s a big step and obviously the most important one he’ll take to this point in his career.
He’s determined to get it right and I give him full marks for that. I wish more of my senior squad players had such a willingness to get their heads down.
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I also got an e-mail from Kate. She was to the point.
Dear Rob:
I wanted to write you to express my sorrow at Patty’s incident. Even Peter is shocked to hear of the sad news.
Please know that we both wish her well. She – and you – are in my prayers.
With love,
Kate
I closed my e-mail.
“With love,” I sighed. “Well, that’s nice.”
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