I want to have a great save.. how should id o this what i mean is should i do the press confrerences, match talks etc ?
For a game less likely to get you committed to the local asylum i would recommend taking your time over it. Find a team that means something to you (i'm guessing leeds

Ultimately for the immersive experience, take control of the training, both team and individual, take the time to develop your own tactic according to the players you have and gradually adapt your team to the tactic you want.
Before long you'll be on the win/loss roller-coaster as if it actually mattered and not just a game.